Slonimer, you seem to be deliberately misquoting me. What is ok with me is not the issue. The point was that the community practice works for each community. The Rav mentioned is someone I know for years but do not necessarily follow. as I said in the case cited, a member of that community davening in the presence of a woman so attired is not sinning, in your community or mine, we would be oiver aveira in such a situation.
Sorry Modesty, You’ll have to make inquiry on your own. Given the vultures on this blog, I don’t want to engender mother shem ra.
P.S. i bet you couldn’t find Slonim on a map,