Lilmod Ulelamaid: Thank YOU!!! 🙂
WOMEN pay for more than you can imagine, behind the scenes. Do you know how much money I’ve spent on extra makeup, outfits, and gasoline just to show up to a date? And I’m a very thrifty spender. Seriously, most of my clothes are second-hand, and I have to sacrifice just to look pretty.
By the way, it’s the husband’s job to provide for his wife, according to halacha. When every date is with the intention that your date may be your future wife, why would you not want to establish the relationship on the right footing?
That said, I feel for you. It’s not easy to struggle with parnassah. Just please, keep in mind that women are investing in you before you show up for your date.
Thank you