Isn’t all this makeup, clothes etc. really a females choice because they feel that it is the only way to date? It’s not technically a necessary cost it’s a cost they choose, in order to give themselves an advantage (we can argue whether it’s false advertising in another thread)
and OP
same question
the fancy meal is a choice made by you to give yourself an advantage. You can, of course, to do 15 straight lounge dates
CTRebbe
If we are lowering the expectations of women on voluntary costs that make their dates seem more interesting, wealthy etc
Don’t, in the name of equality, we need to lower male expectations on voluntary costs that make their dates seem more pretty ?