“He didn’t quote the rav, and to me, “wasn’t very positive about it” is a euphemism for “told me not to”.”
He wrote: ” he didnt give me a psak either way”
DY, you have a tendency to comment on (and criticize) posts that you haven’t read (or haven’t read all the relevant posts or read them thoroughly). You have done this to me several times, and I find it very upsetting.
If you read what I wrote carefully, you will see that your points have no place here and have nothing to do with anything I wrote. And you are overstepping your bounds when you criticize my posts without having read them carefully (and in some cases, haven’t read them at all).