joseph: Is it poor form or morals that one spouse cannot deal with the physical or emotional issue that the other spouse faces or even the financial issues that happens during the marriage? It may be but many of us have friends or relatives where this happened. Let’s try to talk in reality and not the “nirvana” that everyone wants to live in. We generally do not enter into marriage with thoughts of divorce. However, the OP and others keep talking about “mistakes” the spouses make and how to avoid them. Divorces can happen without either spouse making a mistake. If one wants to enter marriage without taking that into consideration they IMHO are doing themselves a disservice.
GH: Are you saying that my responses are not “intelligent”? I know that am not the “sharpest knife in the drawer but I am also not the dullest”. =D