A wife is a friend/enemy according to the Torah.
‘Ozer kinegedo’ ( helpmate but against man) is how the Torah discribes the nature of a woman.
A perfect example was chava who gave Adam the forbidden fruit to eat in order to kill him.
A wife can be so treacherous that rabbi gershon made decree against poligomy.
So the answer to your question … should your spouse be your best friend ?……. probably not.
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