Where did I write that the first Rav wasn’t sensitive to emotional realities?
You actually even quoted yourself saying that a few posts back.
“Look for a Rav who is both grounded in halacha and sensitive to emotional realities.”
I know, you’re going to say that you didn’t actually say that the first rav wasn’t sensitive to emotional realities. And that’s technically true. But you are missing how your posts are coming across.
I’m sorry if you think I’m attacking you and making false accusations against you. That’s not my intent.
You can choose to insist that you very carefully wrote disclaimers at every turn, but think about why you need to write all these disclaimers – because you realize that it sounds like you’re saying that the first rav was wrong, but you know you can’t say that, so you’re disclaiming that.
But it still sounds that way.
The same is true with a few points in this discussion; that’s an example.
I’m sorry that I’ve hurt your feelings. Again, that certainly wasn’t my intent.