“There is an advantage to families being compatible, if I would’ve married into a gezhe family, I wouldn’t feel my parents are on equal footing with my supposed in laws and that can get awkward.”
if my kids felt that way about me it would be a lot worse than awkward, it would be downright hurtful. Who encourages such a caste system? I didn’t believe it when the poster said it, but anyone who can speak like this about their own parents…wow. They must be very proud of the path you’ve chosen.