OK, I can see that a lot of posts went through before I hit submit on my last one and many more are awaiting moderation, so the tone might have changed a bit; in particular stuff like: ” I don’t know of other segment of the tzibur with such ahavas yisroel . End of story….nothing more to say.”
Chabadshlucha: I still think you were probably pushed over the edge further than you wanted by this thread, but I hope you can see that it’s comments like that from Lubavitchers, whether provoked or not, that irk the rest of us. Having ahavas Yisroel for chilonim does not exempt you from having to have ahavas Yisroel for the rest of the frum world.