@Wolf
I grew up in the retail business.
My father owned 15 clothing stores
His brother owned a furniture store
My mother’s sister and her husband owned a TV/Appliance store
Thanksgiving was the last chance for a family gathering before January 1. Every possible working hour was spent in the stores after Thanksgiving.
We gave thanks for the shopping habits of the Goyim that would enrich us and allow us to pay for our schooling, shuls, homes, etc. that would be made in the coming 5-6 weeks.
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As for Turkey, I roast one every Sunday year round, so it’s no big deal. however, all the extras, stuffing, corn kugel, mashed potatoes, vegetables, pies are extra special and enjoyed by the family.
We are no longer in the retail business, but some of the nices/nephews and spouses are and this is the last free time we can get together.
In January, we all start taking breaks ion the sun and really only gather again as a whole family for Pesach at the CTL compound.