Avi, don’t mind Avram. He’s still reeling from facing the reality that he’s influenced by goyish mores and values. Although he’s still in denial about that, obviously a Yid doesn’t set out to be influenced by goyish mores and values; but, rather, it is subconscious where he doesn’t even typically realize he’s been brainwashed by local societal values. Then he takes those gentile values and tries wrapping it around some Torah keywords and reselling it as some kind of valid hashkafa!
Regarding the Three Oaths, search the CR archives. We’ve had this conversation repeatedly. And I’ve already, more than once, demolished your argument that the Three Oaths aren’t halachicly binding today. I’ve provided you sources, citations and quotations from the Seforim HaKedoshim including Chazal, Rishonim and Achronim. GIYF.