joseph: No…..things that I thought then were a “chisoron” that I can overlook have been proven that I cannot overlook. But there was no way of knowing this before marriage. It has come with both the “good and bad” that HKB”H has thrown at us in the past 30 years. The “good and bad” is in quotes because we don’t understand the actual cheshbonos and what we may think is “bad” may actually be good. Couples eventually have to confront issues that could not have been foreseen when dating.
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