It’s fairly obvious that CS/SY cannot answer the questions. I believe that is because they don’t get it. This is how they were raised and don’t understand what is being asked. Every time someone questions a practice, they bring a proof that exacerbates the problem.
CS: I’m not as nice as Daas Yochid. I don’t think that you originally made a mistake with semantics with that whole partner thing. I think you’re havana is messed up on this whole Inyan. SY said well. Go learn the ikkarim like the Aseres Hadibros and the 13 Ikrei Emunah first. You need to have that deeply ingrained in you before you will be ready to go on to anything else. Especially Kiruv and/or teaching.
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