Reply To: If Nassi is wrong, how do you explain why 1000’s of older girls are stil single?

Ok, thank you all holy ostriches. Thank you for enlightenment me with alternative explanations.
There is no shidduch crisis.
Just as many boys are unmarried as girls, we don’t have the data to prove any crisis. (What we see all around us is not a valid study)
There always were girls who didn’t get married because there was no dowry. ( Even wealthy girls are finding it hard)

More girls than boys still theoretically allows each girl to go out on equal dates. (There won’t be enough boys for the girls to marry regardless if they all got a date)
Let’s not make girls into rachmonus cases, it’s a chilul Hashem. (HASHEM wants us to ignore their pain& just trust in him to make it right.
The girls are to picky looking for a full time learner so the boys married some other group of girls whom we don’t know about yet. (Please identify where these thousands of rejected boys are & who they married)

This whole conversation comes from a lack of bitachon
Everyone has their bashert we just need to daven that all the missing boys should reappear. (The chiyuv hishtadlus applies to shidduchim as well).
Please continue helping me understand alternative explanations for this crisis/non crisis.