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maybe the problem is that every guy and girl is waiting for that dream guy.
I remember when someone once told me when I was dating: “You don’t know which girl hashem decided for you to marry”.
Gemara in sotah says that its basically decided already.
So instead of the dream girl/guy, maybe should look for the RIGHT one.