Reply To: RH is MIL’s first Yahrzeit…how should we adjust traditional celebration?

@iacisrmma
Mrs. CTL and our daughters and daughters in law reached a decision last night.
Sunday morning after shul we’ll hold an unveiling for MIL, then a simple dairy lunch in our yard.
The seudos will be at our home. The girls will do the cooking and serving.
ONLY children, spouses and grandchildren will be here, no nieces, nephews, cousins, machatunim, etc. will be here.
No guests will sleep here.
My eldest sister will host my side of the family for the evening seudos, but all will gather at the compound after shul for Tashlich and lunch.
We’ll try to keep everything low key. We’ll all go to shul for davening instead of family services in our home. I have let the Rav and gabbai know that we’ll be using our family seats this year and that they are not available for use by guests or other shul members.

This is the current plan, BUT as they say: Man plans and G-d laughs
it may all change………….