Time for truth
Just curious,
If your daughter was married to a guy who beat her, you would tell her what? stay in the marriage?
Or if your daughter in law was found out to be having a secret life, you would tell your son to just go to counseling?
And if they took the obvious (and halchically correct solution) of asking for a divorce, you would tell your grandchildren to be honored to be the victim of bias because it’s for the greater good?
Health
It isn’t the solution bc
a) it wasn’t an empathetic remark and
b) those that have bias don’t change bc of circumstance. BH I have been remarried for many years and yet my step daughter (raised in a stable household) experienced this bias despite the fact that the divorce occurred in her infancy.