Reply To: The world is in a state of Geula- and don’t misunderstand us!

Rso

“It’s not lashon hara if there is a clear to’eles, and the to’eles I’m aiming for is twofold. First, to show you and your colleagues that you have what to fix up urgently before preaching. Second, to warn others of the situation so that they shouldn’t be blindly caught up by your nice friendly explanations of how fantastic lubavich is. Your chassidus’s lack of tznius is a great danger to everybody who is involved with them, and IMHO it is even more dangerous than a lot of the other stuff I have been protesting..”

I must say rso that you are very tempting and maybe right in a private conversation but I do feel the internet warrants am additional measure of concern with the various issurim. This is also ironic. You (ok DY) finally got me to apologise on something unequivocally and now you want me to retract it.

Regardless I will tell you that I agree with you on this point , and will tell everyone else as well: you may be risking your daughter’s tznius by sending her to lubavitch UNLESS you are a full fledged lubavitcher. I wouldn’t advise you to send your kids to our schools as any chinuch expert will tell you, it’s important that the school and home share the same hashkafa and outlook for best results. The reverse is true as well. I know lubavitchers (not shluchim) who have sent their daughters to BY and chassidishe schools so they would come
out with better tznius results and the results unfortunately we’re disastrous. One of those same families sent their following daughters to lubavitch schools and they ended up with much better results.