Sechel, we know, and we appreciate what chabad does.
But I’m not sure why parts of Chabad have this hangup about helping other frum yidden. I understand it’s not the primary purpose, but when you do, do it with a smile, instead of complaining.
I for one always leave a big donation for every nonmeshichist chabad house I stay at. But I still preferred to be treated as a “special guest” than “unwanted frummie”.
(BTW, I have to pint out to every nonchabadnik reading this thread – Chabad houses recieve no special funding from any organiztion. All fund must be raised by the shliach himself. So if you use their services, and your sure the money will go towards making people frum (as opposed to making people believe in a false messiah) ALWAYS leave a large donation! The shliach and his family needs it!