since this thread began more boys started dating.
This will be even more true by next week once the freezer opens.
(Of course more girls started dating too, and perhaps more girls than boys)
You answered your own question. I’m not sure why you’re so confused.
There would be a shidduch crisis (perhaps in some ways worse) if we did arranged marriages instead of dating, but exclusively set up 23 year old boys with 19 year old girls.
Dating makes it worse in a way because many seem to take a long time to “find the right one”, but isn’t the cause of the disparity.