All orthodox Yiden all over the world, in Erets Yisroel, & Europe are in Shidduchim @ 20. Chazon Ishnikes, & Chasidim are in Shidduchim @ age 18. Is it only the American Shoitim that are not mature till 23, or is it American Goyishkeit that seeped into the Yeshivish system that allows them to do Avairos till age 23?
Boys waiting till 23 are transgressing;
Velo Sosuru Ve`Achrai Ainaichem
Avairos mentioned in the begining of Tefilath ZakeH
Velo Samod Al dam Raiyecho as per Rav Shteinman, Rav Elyoshov, Rav Auerbach Zichroinom Licrocha
Of course he should enter Shidduchim if he is an Orthodox Yid.
Hatzlocha Raba
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