Reply To: Yeridas Hadoros, prime ex: Kibbud Av v’Em

All the parenting books/classes – even the frum ones – discourage parents from being strict,
punishing disrespect – or punishing, blaming, shaming for anything!
Parents are told if they are strict their children will go OTD. But children from permissive parents
also go OTD. After all, they think Hashem does not punish, no matter what rules they break.