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Its about time someone brings this topic up. As an Asken in stopping the Shidduch Crisis I have had many many Shoitim, saying that the Shidduch crisis is a Gezaire, its from Hashem, or my RY doesn`t hold from the Age-Gap.
B’H we already have actual school graphs that clearly show that the boys waiting till 23 are the cause of the crisis. We have true Gedoilin that Paskened that the Age-Gap is the problem. Yet there are boys and their parents that continue their careless idiocy of waiting around till 23. This is not from Hashem. This is not a Gezaire.
This is the continuous Avairedicke way of life. They dont care about their own sister, niece, cousin, or another Yid. A man made tragedy. They cant blame Hashem. A Baal Bechira is doing this.
Our message is clear, to the 21 yr. old boys & their parents. Stop causing the Shidduch Crisis. Listen to Shiodduchim