Obviously I didn’t mean it’s never recommended! Just that if someone is deliberating (which vibes emanating from the OP suggest) then it’s not recommended. It’s something that needs to done under certain circumstances.
I’m gonna get flack for this (good thing there’s social distancing so you can’t punch me in the face!). Not to judge any case specifically but these days with so many marriages ending in divorce it’s hard to believe that in every case divorce was the only option (leaving out cases where one party was either abusive or mentally unstable). Before anyone gets married they must understand marriage is about giving, it’s not about you. You can’t change someone else, only yourself. This all takes work, it’s not supposed to be easy. Secondly when two people get together they are two individuals, so there are different opinions, wants and likes, if small differences are not worked out and discussed they become bigger problems which create situations that lead to divorce.