Shidduch for men – 2 hours of ????? ????? (the Sefer) a day no lying to yourself about time spent in the text and taking notes. On top of that????? ????? 2 hours a day, no clown stuff on your mind just pure clear thoughts(As ?? ???? called it ???????? like in Coronavirus means to isolate, so take time off from the ????? ?????? and just clear your head two hours a day.) Do this for Three months and then go to a Shadchan.
For Women- ?????!! This one is a big deal, if you have ????? at all in any matter whether that be ????, ???, ????, Family accomplishments, Social circle, etc. all that type of ????? will destroy the potential for ????? in your current and future home. ????? ???? as well is a big deal it reflects on your ????? as a whole which of course applies to both Genders. I suggest for women ?????? as well ????? for Women goes a REALLY long way, like a REALLY REALLY long way…