Truebt : so when chazal say אין מרחמים על מי שאין בו דעת it was loshon horo?
I am not picking on a specific person or group but condemning a theoretical behavior. Sheesh.
You can agree or disagree with how I feel about the theoretical someone who obstinately refuses to see what is happening around him but no need for you to get on your loshon horo high horse.
The issur of Loshon horo was not meant to be a convenient,
self serving excuse to shut down discussion.