Reply To: Shidduchim – Divorced Homes

@bsharg, not necessarily.
For some people, being married would be gehinom for them and their spouse.
If someone isn’t ready for marriage it is a really bad idea to get married.
Of course no one is completely ready. But if someone has serious issues with being in such a kind of relationship as a marriage, it will be awful for them to get married before they get help.
Especially today when divorce is such an easy road to take, unfortunately lo aleinu.
It’s hard enough to work on your marriage when you are relatively emotionally healthy!
I’m only referring to people who have serious issues with intimacy, not someone who is “having fun” and doesn’t see the point in getting married yet.