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July 18, 2020 10:40 pm at 10:40 pm #1883323
Maivin
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Say the Tefilla of the Chida daily, it is a really special teffilah to find a Zivug. The Gemora says the gates of tears where never shut… cry to HaShem to help you find the right shidduch at the right time. Also as the Gemara says davening for ones freind that is is the same plight will have ones own teffilad answered first, get a friend to daven for you and more importantly daven for a friend that also needs a shudduch. Remember both of these rights have already been predecided don’t worry do your hishtadlus and date. Sometimes it may be that there is a gezaira on how many biys you may first have to go out with. Always remember that just as you got out of bed this morning so did your zivug. There is only one person that can be your zivug. He is somewhere and might have not even entered shidduchim yet…. (though unlikely). Just remember there is only one in charge and only one zivug EVREYONE ELSE IS NOT FOR YOU. All you friends that have gotten married… their husbands were 100% not for you.
A single boy