Reply To: Will you be in shul on Rosh Hashanah

@Syag, I didn’t write respect, I wrote ” I respect the right” and likewise I expect the same in return.
What ones motivations are is frankly none of anyone’s business, I don’t go up in shul and ask some random stranger who he is saying kaddish for, I don’t ask some random stranger who made a meshabrach lcholeh who that person is and what is that person suffering from, and I don’t ask some random stranger who benched gomel why that person benched.
Everyone should do what works for them and its none of anyone business.