Reply To: Better Not To Say Kaddish

wolf: leave it up to god

You really should use a capital G when referring to HKBH.

to allocate where your prayers go and whom they benefit. just because you think you are saying a prayer “for such and such” does not make it so.

For general prayers, yes. But here, I’m explicitly saying them because someone died and for the purported benefit of that person.

The Wolf