In most cases the Beis Din has not issued anything. In the cases where they did issued a siruv, and those cases are about 50/50% whether it was issued against the husband or against the wife, the siruv is *only* that the defendant show up to Beis Din in order to have a trial as to whether or not a Get is required to be given. It is not a siruv that a Get must be given, other than in rare cases.
“In the small cases where Beis Din did not pasken against the husband, those have to be taken on a case-by-case basis before forming a lynch mob.”
In cases where there’s no siruv it is absolutely forbidden to take sides or to pressure anyone to do anything.