Duvee ? UJM
“If you’re suggesting Reuven lied to Beis Din, which is not the case I presented, ”
you didn’t present a case.
Obviously each of these cases involves a myriad of details
” then that’s the Halacha. The request for divorce is rightfully, under explicit Halacha, denied”
Again, That’s the halacha in Even Haezer
There is no explicit halacha that prevents me from practicing my bagpipe “skills” every day when my neighbor tries to take his nap.
Yet most people , would grant that is not a very nice thing to do.
There are many cases where A Rav will encourage someone to give a Get where there is no hope of reconciliation, although m’ikar hadin he isnt obligated too and he is hoping things will change. Are those Rabbonim wrong for needlessly causing gittin that are not required?
“How’s it possible that her Bein adom lechaveiro is to agree to continue the marriage while at the same time his Bein adom lechaveiro is to give a Get??”
I gave you an example: Bein adom lechaveiro involves 2 people. It is your bein adom lechaverio obligation to not let a door hit me in the face, and it is mine ot not make a big deal if you did. The two are not exclusive.
I think I made my point clear.
I will sum up concisely:
All I am saying is causing tzar to another person by forcing her to remain in a marriage that has no hope of reconciliation, is a wrong thing to do.
דַּעֲלָךְ סְנֵי לְחַבְרָךְ לָא תַּעֲבֵיד — זוֹ הִיא כׇּל הַתּוֹרָה כּוּלָּהּ
I am not saying anything controversial