DY, a good point, still, I think we should have a thread “if I were a kallah’s sister”, but when I started singing uisng Fiddler nigun, kids ran away.
Anyway, “if I were a kallah’s (younger) sister” last year, I would cherish an opportunity to stay home and help mommi to take care of younger siblings, keep them away form covid and other troubles, and maybe have time to be with my soon-to-be-away older sister. This would be WAAY more productive than making Tati take extra work, leaving Mommy alone with the kids so that I can learn more Rambans away from home. Wonder which experience prepares a person to be a better eshes chaiyl.