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October 31, 2021 1:55 am at 1:55 am
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farfetchedpshat
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To try answering the first question, maybe people realize that sometimes giving attention to those who crave it may create a pattern of emotional dependency where they keep coming back to you for more in desperation. Like that friend that always makes the joke and immediately looks at you to see your reaction. Not everyone enjoys that.
Similarly, many people may not want to even give a loan if the person will keep coming to borrow more.