“If someone learns and then davens for parnasa – could someone who works whole day and does not learn daven to become a Talmid chochom? Is reciting brochos on Torah a good segulah? Which day of the year is the best? Asking for a friend.”
If someone spends their days and nights serving their father, waiting on him, filling his cupboards, cooking and serving him food, respecting and honoring him in ways that make him happy you can be sure the father will make sure he is cared for and has his needs met. His love and appreciation for his son’s devotion will bring him to keep him fed and clothed. But if you tell your father that you don’t have time to tend to him, ask about him or do what makes him happy because you are too busy stuffing your pockets, stomach and closets, you will have no reason to expect anything, and should not have the chutzpah to ask for anything.
ps – as always your negative attitude toward full time learning is disgusting and comes out in so many ways in your posts that i wonder why most of what you submit is approved.