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Gadolhadorah
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“And it’s lacking in the tznius department, especially since the chosen and kallah aren’t the only ones who gain visibility across the mechitza when that happens”

I would strongly suggest that it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to realize that there is almost a 100 percent liklihood that the majority of guests at the simcha will as you say “gain visibility” of the kallah that is ganz assur under hilchos tzinius. Ask any woman you know about the practical challenges of maintaining modesty while walking up one of the modern open staircases or having a office with glass doors and standup desk with no modesty panel. I don’t understand why this is even an issue if the table/chair lifting is done on opposite sides of the mechitza. Find a more respectful way of showing kovod.