how can one ask Hashem to help you if he is not trying himself? […] I believe, one can not daven for things he did not try getting himself. For example, if one sits at home hungry and does not bother to go to the store (or even to the fridge) and asks Hashem to help, and then dies from hunger – can we say that Hashem abandoned him or do we say that Hashem provided him with a full fridge?
The most pathetic thing is your assumption/obssession that anyone who learns all day fits your above description. You tout it over and over even when told you are grossly misunderstanding. How do you seriously equate not going to college or working in the professional world with dying of hunger instead of opening the fridge?