What do you mean check it out? Are you serious? Ask any shadchan or any perso you know and everyone knows tons of girls that need shidduchim but no one seems to know any boys. Speak to the schools and ask them how many are still single at what age or watch the video referenced above for the actual numbers. You also clearly did not watch the video. And yes hashem told us about the 40 days before thing and he also told boys to marry at shmonah esrah lechupah. So if we mess up hashems plan things can get messed up on the other side of the equation to. Is that not possible? Why refuse to listen to hashem and then blame him for the outcome?
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