Well, for starters, you are also a random individual posting in the name of chabad.
The friends I have are ffb for the most part, for doros. They are wonderful friends, not lecturers, and I have learned much from and about them and how they live their lives and raise their kids over many years.
I will say one thing for sure, they would never make such an ugly statement about baalei tshuva, they are not so full of themselves. And the irony of you talking like that while being the master of outreach.