Reply To: The coffee room is ussor and I’m trying to make sure people chap

Reb Eliezer with all due respect if you ask any rov he’s going to tell you it’s not good to speak to women online wether or not you saw pictures of her.

Al kol punim the oilam is maskim it’s not good to do this but what can we do bpoil to fix this?? Is there anything we can do bpoil to fix this??? With this metzius my skepticism of ywn place in the Frum world dropped drastically.
maybe we should be mevatel the coffee room. Whoever read that previous line their hearts probably dropped, especially those that are here at ywn for awhile, and THATS exactly the problem!
we shouldn’t be even slightly dependent on any online chat, kol shkein vkol shkein one that has men and women communicating!!! And even a person that doesn’t know which gender a username is, kol shkein one that knows what gender a specific username is, people get used to seeing the Same username and develop some kind of something with them on some level, and ‏בהכרח that leads to some connection and some understanding of the other persons personality and some appreciation of the other persons personality and you have a lady and man communicating consistently and constantly backing each other up arguing ‏ ‏וכד״ and it could be your speaking to this person every day. (maybe even more than ur own wife)!!!!!!!!!!! I’m not trying to troll it’s just I care. ‏ ‏אל תרבה ‏שיחה עם האישה באשתו אמרו קל וחומר באשת חברו