” It’s not my derech but did you ever ask one of the YU Roshei Yeshivas personally what they think about it or do you just repeat whatever you read in mishpacha or hear in your shul coffee room”
excellent question. I often ask it here as well on many of the different topics.
Side point, I actually did speak to Rabbi Ahron Soloveitchik zt”l ‘s son Reb Moshe about this and about his father’s response.