Malchus is something we should learn to incorporate into our lives; we’re supposed to give honor to royalty because we can use it as a springboard to having respect for the real King of Kings. A bracha is made with shem Hashem on a king, because through seeing the middah of malchus down here, we can relate to malchus in shomayim. Malchusa d’arah ke’ain malchusa de’rakiah, chazal say.
It’s not a surprise that England is far ahead of most of the world in refinement, and proper behavior. Their culture has malchus wired into it; American culture, on the other hand, is rebellious by nature.