AviraDeArah A Bochur who is a Ben Torah must realize that the mitzvah of getting married and having children is a mitzvah just like learning Torah, wearing Tzitzis, and putting on Tefillin every day. The chiyuv is on him, not on his parents or his Rosh Yeshiva. Without a wife he can not fulfill this mitzvah. If asking a young woman for a date is what it takes as a step towards fulfilling this mitzvah he has to force himself to do it. Some mitzvahs are harder to fulfill than others.
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