I’m not advocating the “women must stay at home” idea – i think there are pitfalls if women are unoccupied; batalah maviah lidei…
Studies also show that women have lower stress thresholds.
I think women should have less stressful jobs, supplementing their husband as primary breadwinner, if they’re not in a position where they need the day to take care of their kids.
Then there’s a kollel lifestyle, which is a whole different system, wifh unique benefits.