Reply To: Chasing the elusive unicorn

“And the girl in her high thirties who wants a ‘shtark learner’ is out to lunch. just like most of the young girls who claim to want strong learning boys. Almost every boy is out of learning at that age. The only ones who stay that long are both very committed and have had good mazal with their social life, family life, and finances.”

Exactly that’s what makes it “looking for a unicorn”

“Why would not being yeshivish mean that he is not a learner?“

Because he isn’t I just didn’t know any other way to describe him (his parents are modern)