Stay away from Chabad / Lubavitch — far away.
Stay within the Syrian Jewish community, and do not go outside of it,
because they are the ONLY people people who will understand you,
because they are the ONLY people people who will respect you,
because they are the ONLY people people who will want you.
The Syrian Jewish community can give you everything you need,
you just must know where to find it.
Visit as many Syrian synagogues as possible, get to know them all.