“Seems like some have tons of טמטום המח והלב. Maybe eat only lubavitch shchita and chalov yisroel, and things will be clearer. I don’t know what to tell you.”
This is a great example of circular thinking.
Chabad is right, and if you question it, it must be because you’re not following chabads opinions. If you were, you’d see that chabad is right.
When facts and sources fail, just go for the “you’re only saying this because you’re not following a Lubavitch standard”
As it happens, i and almost all other yeshivish people are makpid on cholov Yisroel. I avoid Lubavitch shechitah however, because of the very real possibility that the shochet worships a man as god wrapped in a body.