@Sqaure Root,
” THE TORAH commands every Jew to carefully avoid ALL
unnecessary dangers, and commands every Jew to be very careful with his or her health.”
One of the leading causes of death is heart attacks, heart attacks are brought on by stress
one of the biggest causes of stress is a mother in law.
So instead of railing against the shidduch system you should be very happy that you are single and don’t have to deal with a shviger and you’re avoiding a risk factor for a fatal heart attack RL