Reply To: A Hashkafa Question I have no one to ask

I would like to suggest an answer, as a mother and grandmother of both boys and girls. A young men takes on most mitzvas at the time of his bar-mitzvah. For a girl/woman, we are responsible for the most important mitzvas at the time that we marry and start a family. Just think how a kalla at her wedding is the ‘star’ of the occasion.