@yankel-berel
your dishonesty smells.
you don’t care what the SA says. You don’t care what the Avnei Nezer says. Anyone with any integrity in Torah can see clearly that what you are saying is NOT what they wrote. This fact, obvious to anyone who has yiras shomayim and can learn those seforim, is buttresses by the additional fact that ZERO later authorities veer from that obvious reading. These same various “Gedolim” – across all normative Torah camps (i.e. Chassidish, Litvish, Sefardi, Chabad, Breslev, Brisk, etc) all confirm without hesitation the obligation to follow the restrictions of the three shevios.
It is true that there is sometime confusion and r”l mistakes in keeping those guidelines, and the tragedies have been devastating, yet everyone of any Torah authority understand the well sources and undisputed general principal that we Jews must not break the three shevios.